"dedications?" - this is almost like my fancy way of saying "ships" in a way that applies better to me!

i block liberally - i know dni stuff doesn't always stop ppl from interacting, so i'll block you if i'm uncomfortable for any reason.

discourse gives me bad anxiety - while i won't engage with it, know tht i'm anti-harassment to the bone. if you partake in cancel culture & engage with callouts, we won't get along.

i am pro-rpf - my main selfships & dedications as of right now are all rpf-related. i believe that as long as you're not shoving it in a celebrity's face, you should be able to fictionalize them however you'd like & draw or write whatever you'd like about them!

i enjoy dark tropes - i don't post a lot about it (+ i wanna change that), but if you want to get to know me better, pls be aware that i will probably want to talk to you about my dark stuff. if you have any boundaries i'll absolutely respect that, this is just warning so you know to tell me your boundaries!

i cannot stifle my interests due to trauma - i can tag or warn for whatever you may need me to, tho! just let me know!

also i've had psych hospital & crisis residence stays before that i'm willing to talk abt in private if asked!

pro-harassment - like i said, i am vehemently anti-harassment, and this is a zero-tolerance zone for it. that includes antis & fanpol. you're allowed to be uncomfortable with something without demonizing those who create about said thing. as long as no irl harm is being done, do whatever!

bigots & other mean-spirited types - i'm not gonna list off every single little thing. i'll probably block you if i come across you.

anti spiritual kin - i have stopped caring what words people use to describe their experiences, as i've even strayed from using kin terms at all to describe my experiences. that being said, if you / your friends are going to make fun of me for "taking it too seriously", that's a one way ticket to getting hardblocked.

anti-selfship / anti-rpf - literally what are you doing here that is all this blog is lol

discourse junkies - self explanatory

minors - i'd rather not have y'all on this blog of mine, sorry. you can follow my main but even then i'm apprehensive to interact with or befriend minors. i'm an adult (21) who wants adult friends, y'know?

in-depth talk of stifling feelings or interests

sexual / romantic remarks about bang chan (skz), as well as suggesting that he has a partner

suggesting that any of my romantic dedications (especially chan) want or have kids

many of my dedications are related to my past lives. for you, this means to be mindful of the way you talk about them with me.

i call some dedications f/o (fictional other) or c/o (celebrity other), and some i don't. those ones are important to me on a much deeper level.

view my:

jeon jungkook, bts - "#; my dreamer"

kim hongjoong, atz - "#; my captain"

lee minho, skz - "#; my cat's bestie" (we're best friends!)

han jisung, skz - "#; my dirty little secret" (we're somewhere between queerplatonic partners & friends with benefits)

hwang hyunjin, skz - "#; my artist" (he's a friend with benefits)

park seonghwa, atz - "#; m'lady" (he's another friend with benefits)

"#; barking" - general talk tag

"#; scribbling" - my art tag

"#; howling" - my music tag

"#; scratching" - my writing tag

i also tag vent posts as "#vent"

additionally, i tag posts that feel tmi to me as "#personal" - this is sometimes in combination with "#vent"

i don't tag reblogs, asks fall under my general talk tag, & i generally dislike using my general talk tag at the same time as a dedication tag so usually i don't do that

suggestive & nsft posts will be tagged "#citrus" if i remember to tag them (+ if i forget don't be shy to remind me! shockingly i don't post that kinda stuff a lot so y'know!)

none yet! [if we're mutuals, i want you to have one! send me an ask or dm if you're ok with that!]